Making You Relationship Ready!

A 4-month intensive 1-2-1 programme for women in their fabulous fifties & beyond to get relationship ready so they can have fun while finding The One!

Do you want to :

  • Believe in your worth as an individual and to a relationship, so they’ll have to step up to match up if they want you.
  • Be clear on exactly who & what you want in your life, so you won’t get distracted by anyone else.
  • Be untroubled by the well of invisibility you fell into on your 50th birthday, because now you get to choose rather than wait to be chosen.
  • Identify those red flags which have you behaving like a moth to a flame, so you’ll be able to walk away without a backward glance.
  • Enjoy having a full & fabulous life, so it’s easy saying no to the wrong person as you’ve no time to waste.

If you’ve been dating a little while and you’re wondering what on earth is going on, why meeting The One hasn’t happened yet, thinking surely dating shouldn’t be such hard work – I can empathise, as it certainly feels like there’s an epidemic of rubbish around the dating experience, especially online dating, yet as that’s where over half the people forming relationships in 2019 met, what’s a girl to do?

You’ve tried new apps or sites, re-writing your profile, taking new photos, read books or articles on the subject and – worst of all – you’ve lowered your standards. Yes, maybe you’re getting more dates, but you’ve also discovered how awful the dregs of the dating pool can be. This is only going to lead one way – to you loosing every shred of self-esteem and confidence and giving up on dating for good.

There is a way out of this mess and it all starts with you, because that’s what can control – but you don’t have to do it alone.


My programme is designed specifically to meet the issues you’re facing and was lovingly put together based upon my experience of dating in my fifties, and backed up with all my professional training. I want to bring the fun & laughter back into your dating experience, and for you to be relationship ready when The One makes his appearance.


For I’ve been where you are now – and trust me, I didn’t believe I was a great catch – single again at 50, grey and overweight, knowing I wasn’t washed up, yet doubting my value to others. As someone who has never been a beautiful woman, I’ve had to overcome the belief I was only worthy of the scraps left over, so I know that whether you allow yourself to end up in a bad relationship or hold out for a good one, is all about your self-belief, self-esteem, self-love, self-worth. It’s all about you, and your relationship with yourself. And I did it all after my 50th birthday.

It was only when I took a brutally honest look at the role my self-doubt played in my dating experience, and did the work to build back my self-worth, that things started to change. I remembered quite how much I loved my life outside of dating, and was grateful I’d spent time & effort building a great life as a mature singleton – time undoubtedly well spent. Nevertheless, acknowledging that my ideal was to live as part of a couple, I put together a very short list of the qualities a person would need to possess in order to make my life better. Then – and most importantly – I didn’t waver from that list. I’d always been serious about dating, so that wasn’t what changed, rather I became laser focused on what I wanted, and refused to waste time being diverted by anyone else. Not long after, I met my now partner of 10 years. It really and truly is all about you and the choices you make.

When I talk about being Relationship Ready, what I mean by that is not that you want to date, or to find a serious relationship, even The One – but that you’re in the right head and emotional space to achieve that aim. I’m not saying that in answer to the question “is it them or me?” the answer is it’s you – but that the bits you can control are yourself, your choices, your actions, what you accept and what you reject.

I help you examine – in a safe and supportive environment – your past relationship experience, what unhelpful patterns may be present, whether unhealthy habits were passed on to you by your parents, plus any other issues which may be out of your awareness. I ask you to consider your values and whether they are playing an important role they in your dating criteria, I teach you about the importance of having boundaries and how to use them to keep your dating experience positive. Most importantly, I use coaching tools and NLP techniques to help you heal, and to build back your self-worth, self-esteem, self-belief and self-confidence.

Remember, after my programme you will:

  • Believe in your worth as an individual and to a relationship, so they’ll have to step up to match up if they want you.
  • Be clear on exactly who & what you want in your life, so you won’t get distracted by anyone else.
  • Be untroubled by the well of invisibility you fell into on your 50th birthday, because now you get to choose rather than wait to be chosen.
  • Identify those red flags which have you behaving like a moth to a flame, so you’ll be able to walk away without a backward glance.
  • Enjoy having a full & fabulous life, so it’s easy saying no to the wrong person as you’ve no time to waste.

Let’s get you having fun while you find The One!