DEBS CAREY

Dating Coach & Mentor
so women in their fabulous fifties and beyond
can have fun while finding The One

You’re successful, single, fiercely independent, with a good job, lovely home, wonderful children and great friends – all you want is a relationship that matches, filled with what really matters to you.
But dating when you’re over 50 can make you forget just how much of a catch you truly are.
I know you deserve a relationship and a man who matches you and your wonderful life. For you are amazing, each and every one of you, in your own wonderful and unique way. My purpose is to re-connect you with your fabulous self, so you won’t settle again.

If you feel like this…

  • You’re utterly jaded after a yet another relationship hasn’t worked out
  • You’re fed up hearing “I don’t want anything serious” only after you’ve become emotionally involved
  • You’re done with relationships where people need fixing or putting back on their feet
  • You’ve reached the end of your tether with dating
  • You’re on the verge of giving up finding a relationship to match your life

Imagine feeling like this instead…

  • You believe in your worth as an individual and to a relationship, so they’ll have to step up to match up if they want you.
  • You’re clear on exactly who & what you want in your life, so you won’t get distracted by anyone else.
  • You can identify those red flags which have you behaving like a moth to a flame AND know how to walk away without a backward glance.
  • You’re enjoying your full & fabulous life so it’s easy saying no to the wrong person as you’ve no time to waste.

If you do nothing to change, you’ll be caught in a horrendous, never ending loop for the next 5, 10 or more years. Honestly, you’ve got better things to do with your life than to put up with that nonsense. Haven’t you?


For I’ve been where you are now – and trust me, I didn’t believe I was a great catch – single again at 50, grey and overweight, knowing I wasn’t washed up, yet doubting my value to others. It was only when I took a brutally honest look at the role my self-doubt played in my dating experience, and did the work to build back my self-worth, that things started to change. Today I’m 65, content, loved and in a supportive relationship for 10 years, with a business I ‘m passionate about.

I offer myself – not only as a living, breathing example of how my method works – but with the addition of my professional training and expertise, I can get you there quicker than I did, and so save you wasting any more of your valuable time.

I learned how to be the difference I needed in my own life, and I’m ready to make a difference in your life – are you ready too?

The work we’ll be doing relies on trust in the relationship between between coach and client, as you’ll be depending on me to support you and keep you safe while you face potentially difficult emotions. So, let’s take a little time to get to know one another first via a 30 minute no cost no obligation chat on Zoom.

Book your 30-minute chat here.


© 2022, Debs Carey